Whether it is "hot-kang wife and kids" type of common ideals, or "for his wife, Yong Luan accounts with" the scholar-beauty-style goal in life, husband and wife live together in one room, with the places of traditional practices can be described as a legend through the ages to become the Chinese people For the marriage of two of the basic statute of the world, but the sub-bed health benefits in recent years, the couple claim more and more couples in the end sub-bed sleep wrong with that?
From a medical perspective, the domestic rare on the couples sub-bed academic discussion of the pros and cons, but in sub-bed of foreign spouses is more common. Can be said that the husband and wife sleep in bed due to both sub-health, emotional and maintain independence and privacy of individuality would definitely be beneficial. Experts said the couple sub-bed is nothing wrong, but need to have a basic premise: The two sides must have a good emotional foundation. The benefits of sub-bed to sleep in the following points:
First, the sub-bed to sleep can be maintained between husband and wife "intimate sense of distance."
From a social point of view, men and women are a social person. As a husband and wife, each person has their own social circle and also do not want outsiders have their own privacy. Sub-bed door, not only for their own self-reserved a space on both sides are also good for mental health can make between husband and wife to maintain a "close sense of distance."
Second, it can create between husband and wife "mysterious freshness."
An old couple Enenaiai, Xiangruyimo for many years, but there are "Shenmeipilao" day. It is said that regular maintenance of the new marriage is to keep the secret of the mysterious. When the other's eating and drinking Lazard all appear in the line of sight range, both the final line mystery is lost. He can at your side to sweet fall asleep snoring like thunder and saw that his dandruff falling During the meeting, pillow River, smell the smell of corruption in his mouth; you every day to unkempt, nagging is more than the image display in his Huanglian Po front, and then there is no image of that graceful ladies. At this point, the appropriate sub-bed door can be that the two sides to create a sense of renewal, for the marriage to add romantic atmosphere, to play "Do not win the small wedding," the role of intimate contact for the next buried a little look, as long as any side to create a little atmosphere, when re-kindle sparks of love, the sex life will naturally duck to water, the quality will be greatly enhanced. This, of course Sishou than looks, there is no volume on the quality of life a hundred times stronger.
Husband and wife sleeping in a bed on one side of the words of God Body, are likely to provoke the other side, especially the man's lust, resulting in too frequent sex life. Of traditional medicine that the kidney essence, marrow, pass the brain, the main bone, sexual intercourse too close can cause kidney, thus making the dizziness, mental fatigue, Yaoxisuanruan, reduces efficiency and so on, in serious cases, can induce prostatitis, urinary Lu infection. If the sub-bed, stimulation significantly reduced, to live a moderate sexual life, recharge your batteries, there is help to protect the kidney qi.
Perhaps many people still can not accept such a moment while the line of anti-traditional approach, after all, women wearing pants is the process of going through hundreds of years, was only widely-accepted, fashion is always walking in the crowd before! Of course, sub-bed door is not to become a normal state, only in circumstances conducive to health promotion. Exactly the circumstances under which the couple hours bed to bed, it would be of great benefit to health.
Health experts believe that the following situations when the husband and wife sleep in bed for hours:
※ 1, women's menstrual period, pregnancy, puerperium, lactation and other "4" period. In the meantime, the wife needs to be the best health care, this time the couple sub-bed is very necessary. For example: In the menstrual period for losing control and sex life, high incidence of female genital inflammation and irregular menstruation; during early pregnancy sex life, high incidence of miscarriage, premature or late intrauterine sex life easily cause bleeding, infection, etc.; delivery Shortly after the sex life may lead to puerperal fever; nursing young mothers physical and energy consumption, coupled with the baby noisy, tend to rest well at night. If the couple hours bed to sleep, you can avoid the above-mentioned wrong conducive to his wife's "four" health.
※ 2, husband and wife are one, if suffering from viral hepatitis, tuberculosis, influenza, bacterial dysentery, or skin diseases such as infectious diseases, share this bed is very easily transmitted to the other side. In addition, if a wife suffering from fungal vaginitis or vaginal trichomoniasis, sexual contact will be transmitted to her husband. If the husband and wife go to bed sub-bed, it is easy to implement sensible isolation, effectively prevent another infection or cross infection.
※ 3, one of the spouses because of their work is often morning to evening, in order to avoid interfering with each other late at night of sleep, the best choice for sub-bed door in order to ensure adequate sleep, eliminate fatigue and resume physical strength, good physical and mental nature.
※ 4, husband and wife have a good emotional foundation, but found that among the "sex" Fun smeared out, you can choose sub-bed to sleep, and prepare "sex" Fun. There are a couple of the demand due to the frequency of different, sometimes one would like to one does not want, in order to give way the other, hand, confused on bad terms. In this case, you can also choose sub-bed door, it may be so again when the two sides of the same bed with therapeutic writing needs.
In the ordinary people's minds, it seems that only when the husband and wife quarrel Ouqi bed to sleep only minutes, then turn to consider sub-bed sleep would not lead to quarreling couples Ouqi do? Listen to expert advice, do not let sub-bed door to become a "double-edged sword" ... ...
Experts pointed out: sub-bed door is a modern couples choose a way of life, but it does not apply to all. For a strong emotional foundation, but the couples sex life couples in a relatively dull period, the sub-bed door to the equivalent of a medicine that can bring the parties Zhongranaihuo, review the mandarin duck dream. However, if the relationship between husband and wife have been on the cold, stress, sub-bed for a long time, it is possible to make the already cool relations between spouses is more cold, increase the rift, resulting in a deeper barriers, or even a third party would take advantage of. Therefore, it is necessary to properly handle contradictions among the husband and wife sleep in bed sub-scale, do not let the temporary separation of a permanent separation.
Some couples feel very good, each has a very strong psychological dependence. After the sub-bed to sleep due to miss each other, hand, eventually finding it difficult to fall asleep, or even give the two sides of the work, life, cause unnecessary emotional distress, in which case, it does not have to forcibly separated from sleep.
In addition, it is noteworthy that the sub-bed sleep in housing distribution is not necessarily to sleep. For the middle-aged couples, the lack of passion in an already sleeping when the housing allocation, it may not result in The couple could no longer sleep together went. However, the recently popular "sub-bed regardless of room," or "sub is big bed" of the methods may well be a good solution.
In the United States and Europe, someone has invented a kind of middle of the mattress can be opened, the couple would like together on the combination, would like to sub-sub-not only to solve the problem, but also reflects the West's unique sense of humor and wisdom. Conditions of the people, it may be worth a try.
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