The responsibility of the mother of men off the rails

Extra-marital and extramarital sex, had not a new word. All around us, there will be a friend Gesanchawu happen one way or another the story of wedlock. The accident is always a man, injured woman is always, at the end is always exactly the same, but they each have their own different reasons.

 

Recently, the French children's medical expertsjust released a book entitled "adulterer," a book on men's "off the rails act" has identified a basket of reasons, but also triggered a lot of controversy. In the interview, Al tells him over the eyes of man "disloyalty" reasons.

 

　　Man off the rails, the responsibility of the mother

Reporter: In your book you mentioned, men derailment, and not just "sex"?

Agri more: Of course. Are the same for men and women, "sex" is usually understood not only the mere "sexual" behavior, but also often to find their birth when the mother's arms felt a brief, beautiful state.

Reporter: It sounds too new. Do you mean is that infidelity by men against women is to get back to the "mother" of the faithful?

 

Agri Multi: Yes. When a man choose a woman when he can prove that her "find" in the past received from the mother's sense of happiness, but this state can not continue for too long. Because the soul of men, the mother will always occupy the first one; other women at the most can only be routed to the second place.

Reporter: as you say this, men derailment, errors attributed to his mother that it?

 

Agri more: Using the "wrong" word a bit too heavy, I think he can only call "responsibility." In fact, the mother can let her son out of their "shadow", but unfortunately, many mothers neglected them. From the beginning of the baby, the mother should not be rigidly abide by his son around, always "satisfy" them. Have to learn to release the child's hands and feet, so that they partner with multiple and small. Otherwise, when the boys grow into men, he, when confronted with an unfamiliar female, will be an effort to strengthen their initial contact with the mother's subtle, "the mother's shadow" will also persist.

 

　Man off the rails is just a temporary "sex" from

Reporter: Women always think men are "thinking with the lower body," the animal, which is not saying that sex has always been corrupting the soul of a man do?

Agri Multi: No! This is a lot of women to men misunderstanding. Indeed, I admit that a man's sexuality are much stronger, it can be said that a man derailed one of the reasons, but that does not demonstrate that they do not care about love. Further indulgence of men would not casually choose their other half. When they choose a woman, the subconscious is looking for a similar woman with his mother; and subsequent marital problems, but also mainly as a result and the number of outstanding issues between the mother caused.

 

Reporter: "unmasked", the man said to the woman up to a sentence is: "I'm just casually play with her, I still love you." This is cheating?

 

Agri more: We can take this view, when a man choose a woman and her marriage to prove that the woman in the hearts of men occupied an important position. Or, he chose her because she is very similar with his mother, which is similar or even beyond the man's own imagination. Nevertheless, men will still bored rigid life. As a result, many men emergence of the "rolling stone" behavior. Such a result of "curiosity" led to the derailment, is the most controversial topic between the sexes. In fact, most men are concerned, "impulse" after "love" is still strong, he is anti-overshoot "I love you" is not a lie.

 

　　Do not make public after derailment

Reporter: We are also willing to believe in "sex" is good, but the bar always some exceptions. If a man and a rolling stone married, is the giving up or that continue?

 

Agri more: it depends on the couple themselves, and this kind of thing can not be generalized. I only have a few suggestions: First of all, do not by virtue of his wife found her husband on the last derailment life he would be derailed; secondly, to each other an opportunity to speak calmly. Nevertheless, our present situation is that men derailment, the initiative to partner admit its mistakes, the basic is futile. Therefore, no matter man or woman, after the derailment Do not tell your partner!