Why are men more likely lie?

According to Hong Kong "Ta Kung Pao" report, the men and women for the 2500 survey in order to live an average of sixty adult point of view, lying more than four times the average daily per person per year, can say 1460 a lie. Popular lies include the right girlfriend or wife said, "No, do not wear those pieces seem too hip," the other half of the uninteresting to say "Of course I love you" and "delicious, delicious."

 

　　Most lies are well-intentioned

Read above these, we may no longer be said that he never lied, because a lot of times we have Caesar's lie was well-intentioned, the principle of a non hurtful, not to harm for the purpose of such lies are often our own ignored.

 

　　The following is what we most often say a lie:

All right, I'm fine! - To each other in order to comfort, so rest assured each other, not fear for their own.

You wear the clothes look great! - To each other to encourage, not allowing the enemy sad.

Delicious, delicious! - To each other to encourage, not let each other down.

This is easy! - To keep each other down, exaggerate their own capabilities.

 

　　Men than women love to lie

United Kingdom survey found that men more easily "export into a lie." Report said, "The man lied five times per day, women only three." The reason men lie.

1, when the commitment can not be realized, in order to face or self-esteem and lying.

Men promised can not be realized, often by lying to cover up their lack of lung power.

2, in order to vanity and lying.

Everyone has vanity, a man the same. In front of their friends like classmates filled the bulk to inflate their own.

3, in order to cover their own mistakes lie.

When a man has another woman outside, the home always trying to lie.

4, in order to seek excitement lies.

Some people feel lied very exciting. Men lie able to bring some degree of psychological challenges, in fact, challenge the existence and between men and women. Each lie after lie who would bring a certain degree of pleasure.

5, in order to avoid emotions lie.

Sometimes, men need to escape, the men need a space of their own. At this time, if a woman does not meet the aspirations of men, men I would have lied to avoid emotional distress.

 

　Lying what is good or bad

The essence of lying is a temporary to avoid conflicts. The short-term deception of lies, long-term may be a gesture of goodwill, in turn, is also set up. A person does not lie is impossible, he can deceive some people a long time can also be cheating all the short-term, but not all of the long-term deception.

 

Lie has nothing to do ethics, to measure good and bad lies, does not lie in whether it is the objective to deceive others, but rather whether it is subjective to deceive the parties themselves. Is it worth a man love a woman, it is important is not how much you say he lied, but he has not lost in the sea of humanity.

 

　We should expose the lies do

For those well-intentioned lies, we do not need to pierce through, but rather carefully and understand each other given the caring and love. Then at the right opportunity to tell him that his own understanding of his mind, and sincerely thank him.

 

For those who have harmed their own lies, will depend on the situation to determine. Often heard argument is that a man having an affair when the woman is clever fool. However, this fool should be carefully targeted, and if the other party is a treasure you, but also the moral bottom line, then you can play the fool or insinuations reminder of the other party. If the person is a man without any sense of responsibility, this fool is oneself.